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So the month of June was a very relaxing month for me. I settled a few things and really just enjoyed myself. I guess I will start off with the holiday of the month:
So the month of June was a very relaxing month for me. I settled a few things and really just enjoyed myself. I guess I will start off with the holiday of the month:
Papa Blossom spent it like he always want to spend it alone. Why would a father want to spend Father's day alone I really don't know, but hey that's what he wanted to do. So Mommy Blossom took me to see Maleficent which was amazing. Every time the camera went away from Angelina's face I mentally begged for it to return back to the sole beauty of the movie. Aside from Angelina the movie's script was great.
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Now, I know I complained about my job before, but it really is the perfect summer job. Why because I am constantly in the mall and can spot out all the sales. Window shopping as become a regular for me after work. Sometimes I have enough self-control to just browse and not buy but sometimes I am weak. I of course still try to maintain a budget with these spare of the moment shopping wants. That's why I always go to Forever 21. They have the cutest things for such a reasonable price. Last week I bought a headband, two rings and a bracelet for only $12. If that isn't a deal then honey I don't know what is. After a long day of shopping the only thing left to do is get a big scoop of ice cream and watch some:
Somehow I let Hulu take over all of my free time. I spend so much time watching the real housewives of every city it is ridiculous. I even got Mommy Blossom addicted to it. I just love reality television, why? Because it's unscripted. Now, I usually do not allow for reality shows to influence my personal life behavior, but Nee Nee from the Real Housewives of Atlanta really made look over my friendship circle. Nee Nee always kept it real with Kim (her ex best friend) she told her in one episode that she couldn't be a best friend or even a friend of hers if she couldn't continue to hold the characteristics that she looks for in a friend. After this only one person popped in my head and they know who they are, but I'll call her Ms. Excuses.
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Now, Ms. Excuses and I have always had an unhealthy relationship, but I always allowed myself to look over it. But for some reason after that episode of TRHOA I couldn't look over her behavior anymore. This so called friendship was only working because I was constantly letting her rudely behavior slide under the radar. Now, I don't compare my friends to each other, but I do observe them. Bubbles and I became friends a few months ago and for our first meeting she was more then happy to pick me up and drop me back off at my house. I live a considerable distance away from Bubbles around 25 minutes, but she still came to pick me up. Now, Ms. Excuses I known for around 5 years and she could never in her life bring herself to pick me up. She of course had multiple reasons why she couldn't. But the fact of the matter she never went out of her way for any of her female friends, just her male ones. And, this bothered me because if I was able I would do it for her. That's when I realize she really was never my friend and I told her this. There comes a moment in your life when you have to put yourself as a priority. Nicholas Sparks says it perfectly "Sometimes you have to let people go and hold onto the memories."
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After getting rid of some negative energy in my life I was ready to be surrounded by some positive energy. So one of my friends arranged a swimming party. I can't wait to just lay by the pool and drink some ice tea. It can be hard realizing you invested so much in any relationship and know that on the other end they weren't depositing the same thing instead they were just withdrawing. Time is the only way one can get over it. So I plan on spending time with my true friends and enjoying my summer. Sometimes things get complicated and I just need some time with my girls. Until Next Time.
-Blossom
-Blossom